Three is about speech clarity, social play, and for many families, potty transitions.
What happens at the visit
Weight, height, BMI. Full exam. First blood pressure check for many kids. Vision screen may start (picture chart). Conversation about speech clarity (strangers should understand most of what your 3 year old says), play with peers, and safety.
Developmental milestones to discuss
Speaking in three-to-four-word sentences, being mostly understood by strangers, riding a tricycle, drawing a circle, imitating a cross, using scissors, turn-taking in play, and simple pretend scenarios.
Vaccines at this visit
No routine new vaccines at the 3 year visit. Catch-up doses if needed, and annual flu in season.
Questions worth asking
- Is my child’s speech clarity where it should be?
- How’s the BMI trajectory?
- Any concerns about social play with other kids?
- When should we start a dentist visit routine if we haven’t?
- What’s a realistic potty-training timeline at this point?
What to watch for between now and the next visit
Longer sentences, more complex pretend play, curiosity about the world, and starting to play cooperatively with other kids. Call about speech that’s mostly unintelligible to strangers, or significant behavior concerns.
How VisitRecall fits in
Record the visit with one tap; your partner gets the summary within minutes. Track growth, vaccines given, and the pediatrician’s specific advice on one timeline with family profiles, and use the parents hub for the rest.
FAQ
How much should a stranger understand?
By age 3, roughly 75% of speech should be intelligible to unfamiliar listeners. By age 4, nearly all of it.
Is it too early for preschool questions?
No — if you have readiness concerns, bring them up.
My child still wets the bed — is that normal?
Very common at 3. Daytime dryness usually comes first; nighttime can take longer.